Your Rights in a Relationship

loving couple
This list of basic rights was published by Patricia Evans in The Verbally Abusive Relationship (1992). Use this list as a guide to evaluate the health of your relationship.

The right to good will from the other.
The right to emotional support.
The right to be heard by the other and to be responded to with courtesy.
The right to have your own view, even if your partner has a different view.
The right to have your feelings and experience acknowledged as real.
The right to receive a sincere apology for any jokes you may find offensive.
The right to clear and informative answers to questions that concern what is
legitimately your business.
The right to live free from accusation and blame.
The right to live free from criticism and judgment.
The right to have your work and your interests spoken of with respect.
The right to encouragement.
The right to live free from emotional and physical threat.
The right to live free from angry outbursts and rage.
The right to be called by no name that devalues you.
The right to be respectfully asked rather than ordered.

This is what a healthy relationship looks like ~

For more information visit Patricia Evans website below. Knowledge is power. Stay informed.

http://www.verbalabuse.com/

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